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My
first ever diary entry came on Saturday, December 23rd, 1972. It did not
contain any comment about starting a journal but launched into the day
itself. So here is my diary from day one. Some of the grammar is decidedly
rough, but I have left it in its original state, although spellings have
been checked and notes added by way of an explanation. Saturday
December 23rd Having no
work today1 I had my usual lay-in and got up at 10.30 a.m.
Arose to the sound of the phone ringing.2 It was Mike3.
We arranged to go to the match against Wolves4 in the
afternoon. Spent the morning doing
up Christmas parcels and going to the shops to get wrapping paper and
various other things. In the
afternoon went to Carrow Road and saw City draw 1-1 with Wolves. It wasn't
a very good match although City did well in the first half. Jim Bone
scored our goal. Returned home
after the match for tea, then took parcels round to Vera and Jack5.
Left there for Ken Mason's6 party at Bacton. It
started off very slowly with only eight people there. By the end of the
evening there were about 17 and it turned into quite a good party, playing
musical chairs and other games. Got home at about 12 a.m and read my
football programme and then went to bed. Sunday
December 24th Christmas Eve
and I still have very little of the Christmas spirit. Got up in the
morning, again at 10.30 and lazed around in the morning before going round
nanny's7 for dinner. In
the afternoon I saw the city match on Match of the Week. Had tea and then
went on a final round of handing out my parcels. Went round to see Harry
and Gladys8 and then Paul9. Was asked to tea next
week by Mrs Smith. Went on to George's10 house and we went down
to the Norfolk County Council social club where we played on the football
machine and also darts, snooker and table tennis. We
then went back to Georges and played Monopoly, chess and comb cricket (our
own invention). I arrived home at 1.15 a.m and, after getting my Norwich
City wall chart up to date went to bed. Monday
December 25th Christmas
Day. I woke up at 9.15 when mum came into the room to tell me that Ken
Milburn11 had called on Christmas Eve. Opened my presents to
find a box of Quality Street, box of Liquorice Allsorts and a Papermate
pen and some money. At 12 went for a drink with Mike to the Cottage11 and
returned home at 1 p.m for Christmas dinner. Spent
the afternoon watching TV (Black and White Minstrels, Billy Smart's
Circus, Top of the Pops, Dick Whittington and the Generation Game). Nanny
Steward, Grandad and Ethel12 came round to tea. That made four
visitors for the day, Jean13 from next door came round in the
morning. George came round at 7.45
and we went out. The county council club was closed, as was City
supporters and we ended up at the Cottage. Soon left and went back to
Georges and played monopoly, chess and ruler cricket. Got home at 11.30
p.m, wrote the diary and then went to bed at 11.50 p.m. Tuesday
December 26th Boxing Day.
My last day away from work. Got up at 10.30 and went to pick Mike up at
11. He came round for a drink and we watched wrestling on TV, then
listened to a few David Bowie tracks. After
dinner I continued my hectic day with a bath and put my suit on ready to
go round Mike's for tea. Peter Anthony14 phoned and asked if I
wanted to go out for a drink. We decided he should come up to Norwich at 8
p.m when I would return from Mike's. Went
to tea at about 4.15. Also at Mikes were Jeannette15 and Mr and
Mrs Saunders16 and Mike's grandmother. After tea we played
Chase the Ace. At 7.40 p.m I ran
Mike and Jeannette to the fair and returned home. Peter had phoned to say
he couldn't come to Norwich because he had tyre trouble, so I phoned him
and said I would go to North Walsham. Got
to his house at 8.45 and went down to the Bluebell Pub where I met some of
his friends - Rob Evans17, a girl called Liz and a boy called
Gerry. We then went back to Peter's for coffee where Neil Anthony18
also had some friends. Arrived home
at 11.50 and went to bed at 12.45 a.m. The end of the Christmas holiday
and it's back to work tomorrow, a great pity. Much to my amazement I have
really enjoyed Christmas. It's a pity it's all over. Still I was very
active all the time and spent very few hours at home. Wednesday
December 27th Back to work
and all the horrible things that go with it.19 Got up at 7.45
a.m and drove back to Lowestoft. Got to the office to spend a very quiet
day. Jobs for the morning were Cine
Club, Theatre Centre Panto, ourt from 10 to 11.
At dinner time went to the Wimpey with Steve and Andy24.
Afternoon was taken up by the Shipping, Trawl Diary25. At 6 p.m
went down to shorthand26 where my tooth got progressively
worse. Returned home, took some aspirins to try and quell the pain, cooked
myself tea and then went to bed at 9.15 p.m not holding out much hope of
sleep unless the pain goes. Friday
December 29th A day of ups
and downs. Woke up at about 8.45 and the pain seemed better but got worse
during the morning only to more or less disappear at dinnertime. Left digs
to find my car wouldn't start, so I walked to work. Nothing
to do at work, so went on a job with Andy. We went to see some people
whose kid had almost drowned in the bath. It was while in their house that
I felt quite ill with the tooth. Returned home to fetch car. By
lunchtime the tooth was better so I went down to the record shop with
Andy. Bought Mexico - Long John Baldry, Little Man - Sonny and Cher, Blue
Eyes - Don Partridge and Oh Happy Day - Edwin Hawkins Singers. Also bought
the Don McLean songbook from Morlings. Did
notCrossing Patrol Reception and filing. Played
football with Steve20 at lunchtime. Then went down to the
second-hand record shop21 and bought Teaser and the Firecat by
Cat Stevens for £1.45, Nicely out of Tune by Lindisfarne for £1.45, A
Song For You by the Carpenters for £2 and Rubber Soul by the Beatles for
85p22. There was hardly
anything to do in the afternoon. Went back to the digs23,
cooked tea and at 8 p.m went round Steve's digs. Met his landlord (cocky
little bugger) and landlady. Watched the Blue Max, then played some
Beatles LPs. Returned home after a toasted hamburger sandwich at 11.45
p.m. Sorted out my records and went to bed after midnight. Thursday
December 28th A really
lousy day. It didn't start so bad but during the day that toothache came
on again, making me cold and depressed. I
woke up at 8.45 and reluctantly got out of bed. Did court from 10 to 11.
At dinner time went to the Wimpey with Steve and Andy24.
Afternoon was taken up by the Shipping, Trawl Diary25. At 6 p.m
went down to shorthand26 where my tooth got progressively
worse. Returned home, toohing at all in the afternoon. Roy27 phoned and had a long
chat with him. Went home, had tea and a bath and watched Sale of the
Century and Upstairs, Downstairs. Went to bed at 10.45 after listening to
Teaser and the Firecat. Saturday
December 30th Working today
so I will miss City v Manchester City. Had a bit of a lay-in, getting up
at 9.20 a.m. Went to work and spent all morning reading the paper and
clearing up. Came home and had dinner and sorted my room out. In
the afternoon I had to report on Lowestoft Reserves v Dereham. Dereham won
a fairly good match 3-1. Returned to the office to find City drew 1-1 and
heard the extra-time commentary of the Wolves v Spurs League Cup match. Went
out to Oulton Broad to get fish and chips and then went to the Sparrows
Nest28 pantomime Jack and the Beanstalk which was surprisingly
good. It went on from 7.30 to 10.45. Afterwards I drove home to Norwich
and watched Parkinson meets the Goons and went to bed at 12.50. Sunday
December 31st got up at 10
a.m when mum told me Roy was on the phone. He was going to Clacton during
the day and wanted to know whether George's party was on. I couldn't tell
him as I didn't know myself. Phoned
Mike and then went round to see George. Mike was already there and George
told us his party was on. Returned home and played the piano for a while,
then went to nannys where I learnt some distressing news - Aunty Poor29
had died. It seems some neighbours had found her. Returned
home and cleaned the car out because Nanny had asked me to take Ethel home
tomorrow. I then watched Match of the Week and phoned Paul and arranged to
go to his for tea tomorrow. At
dinner hour I wrote my pantomime story for the EDP30 and phoned
this over at 6 p.m. Mum and Dad and Nanny31 went out for the
afternoon and when they returned I had to break the bad news. Anyway
had a bath, watched the Fenn Street Gang32 and then went round
to pick Mike and Jeannette up. Returned to mine to get my records. It
was a funny party consisting of me, George, Rob Boden and Sue33,
Roy and Joanne34 and Mike and Jeannette. We merrily mixed
Mike's drinks until he was drunk. He
had his usual arguments with Jeannette and ended up wishing he hadn't said
many things. At 12 a.m we all drank a toast to the New Year. I ran
Jeannette and Mike home at 1.30 a.m and arrived home myself at just after
2, going to bed at 2.15. Well
that's 1972. I'm going to do my damndest to make 1973 a bloody good year. I
made two New Year's resolutions 1/
to go somewhere every night of the year and 2/
to get myself a girlfriend NOTES The
following notes were added September 2004
-
At
this time I was employed by Eastern Counties Newspapers and worked at
their Lowestoft, Suffolk, office on the Lowestoft Journal weekly
newspaper.
-
On this day I would have
been staying at my parents home at 31, Middleton's Lane over the Christmas
holiday period.
-
Mike Smith, a close
friend from my days at the Norwich School. Mike went on to be the best man
at my wedding. I was also the best man at his. We have subsequently lost
touch, although he still lives in Norwich.
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This
would have been the game between Norwich City and Wolverhampton Wanderers.
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Vera
and Jack are my uncle and aunt Vera and Jack Nobbs who still live in Links
Close, Hellesdon. Vera is my father's sister.
-
Ken
Mason was a fellow journalist with Eastern Counties Newspapers. I now
believe that the party was held at Sea Palling and not Bacton.
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Nanny
was Florence Steward, my grandmother and mother of my father
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Harry
and Gladys were Harry and Gladys Sandall. Harry was my grandmother's (my
mother's mother) brother and therefore my great uncle.
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Paul
was another close schoolboy friend Paul Smith who lived in Recreation Road
in Norwich. Today Paul drives buses and I often have a chat with him in
Norwich. Paul was responsible for introducing me to some of the more
tuneful of my current musical taste.
-
George
was George Perrin, another friend from school. I lost touch with him for
some time, but have re-established contact. He lives in Wilmslow with his
wife and three boys. I am godfather to his eldest son.
-
Ken
Milbutn (better known as Geordie) was my grandmother Dew's lodger in
Rupert Street. He also worked with my father and I enjoyed his company
greatly. Came across him a few year's later when he shared a flat with
fellow hournalists in Gorleston.
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Ethel
- this was my grandmother Steward's sister.
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Jean
- Jean Alexander who lived next door to us for some years in
Middleton's Lane, Hellesdon.
-
Peter
Anthony - Another schoolboy friend who subsequently went on the dame
journalism training course in Harlow, Essex, as myself. Peter subsequently
gave up journalism to study law and today is a high court judge in the
Midlands.
-
Jeannette - Jeannette
Lyon was the girlfriend of Mike Smith at this time. They subsequently got
married and I was their best man. Sadly I understand their marriage later
ended in divorce.
-
Mr and Mrs
Saunders - I have absolutely no recollection of who these good people
were.
-
Rob Evans was obviously a friend of
Peter Anthony. A few years later I got to know a Rob Evans who lived
in Hethersett and worked at the University of East Anglia. I think
this may very well be the same person.
-
Neil Anthony was the brother of Peter
Anthony
-
The horrible things probably refer to
getting up and all the stress and hassle connected with work, although
at that age I was much more able to cope with them than I am today.
-
Steve was Steve Hardy who I worked with
and shared lofgings with for a while.
-
The second hand record shop was
in London Road North, Lowestoft.
-
Compared with the other prices,
obtaining a Beatles LP for just 85p seems something of a spectacular
bargain.
-
My lodgings were at 211 St Margaret's
Road, Lowestoft.
-
Andy was Andrew Lemon, a fellow
journalist on the Lowestoft Journal and a man of considerable
charisma.
-
Shipping, Trawl, Diary was a piece of
work picked up each week from the public library in Lowestoft and
chronicled local events and ship and fishing movements. Reminds me
greatly of that excellent film and book "The Shipping News."
-
Each week we trainee journalists had to
attend shorthand k some aspirins to try and quell the pain, cooked
myself tea and then went to bed at 9.15 p.m not holding out much hope of
sleep unless the pain goes. Friday
December 29th A day of ups
and downs. Woke up at about 8.45 and the pain seemed better but got worse
during the morning only to more or less disappear at dinnertime. Left digs
to find my car wouldn't start, so I walked to work. Nothing
to do at work, so went on a job with Andy. We went to see some people
whose kid had almost drowned in the bath. It was while in their house that
I felt quite ill with the tooth. Returned home to fetch car. By
lunchtime the tooth was better so I went down to the record shop with
Andy. Bought Mexico - Long John Baldry, Little Man - Sonny and Cher, Blue
Eyes - Don Partridge and Oh Happy Day - Edwin Hawkins Singers. Also bought
the Don McLean songbook from Morlings. Did
nothing at all in the afternoon. Roy27 phoned and had a long
chat with him. Went home, had tea and a bath and watched Sale of the
Century and Upstairs, Downstairs. Went to bed at 10.45 after listening to
Teaser and the Firecat. Saturday
December 30th Working today
so I will miss City v Manchester City. Had a bit of a lay-in, getting up
at 9.20 a.m. Went to work and spent all morning reading the paper and
clearing up. Came home and had dinner and sorted my room out. In
the afternoon I had to report on Lowestoft Reserves v Dereham. Dereham won
a fairly good match 3-1. Returned to the office to find City drew 1-1 and
heard the extra-time commentary of the Wolves v Spurs League Cup match. Went
out to Oulton Broad to get fish and chips and then went to the Sparrows
Nest28 pantomime Jack and the Beanstalk which was surprisingly
good. It went on from 7.30 to 10.45. Afterwards I drove home to Norwich
and watched Parkinson meets the Goons and went to bed at 12.50. Sunday
December 31st got up at 10
a.m when mum told me Roy was on the phone. He was going to Clacton during
the day and wanted to know whether George's party was on. I couldn't tell
him as I didn't know myself. Phoned
Mike and then went round to see George. Mike was already there and George
told us his party was on. Returned home and played the piano for a while,
then went to nannys where I learnt some distressing news - Aunty Poor29
had died. It seems some neighbours had found her. Returned
home and cleaned the car out because Nanny had asked me to take Ethel home
tomorrow. I then watched Match of the Week and phoned Paul and arranged to
go to his for tea tomorrow. At
dinner hour I wrote my pantomime story for the EDP30 and phoned
this over at 6 p.m. Mum and Dad and Nanny31 went out for the
afternoon and when they returned I had to break the bad news. Anyway
had a bath, watched the Fenn Street Gang32 and then went round
to pick Mike and Jeannette up. Returned to mine to get my records. It
was a funny party consisting of me, George, Rob Boden and Sue33,
Roy and Joanne34 and Mike and Jeannette. We merrily mixed
Mike's drinks until he was drunk. He
had his usual arguments with Jeannette and ended up wishing he hadn't said
many things. At 12 a.m we all drank a toast to the New Year. I ran
Jeannette and Mike home at 1.30 a.m and arrived home myself at just after
2, going to bed at 2.15. Well
that's 1972. I'm going to do my damndest to make 1973 a bloody good year. I
made two New Year's resolutions 1/
to go somewhere every night of the year and 2/
to get myself a girlfriend NOTES The
following notes were added September 2004
-
At
this time I was employed by Eastern Counties Newspapers and worked at
their Lowestoft, Suffolk, office on the Lowestoft Journal weekly
newspaper.
-
On this day I would have
been staying at my parents home at 31, Middleton's Lane over the Christmas
holiday period.
-
Mike Smith, a close
friend from my days at the Norwich School. Mike went on to be the best man
at my wedding. I was also the best man at his. We have subsequently lost
touch, although he still lives in Norwich.
-
This
would have been the game between Norwich City and Wolverhampton Wanderers.
-
Vera
and Jack are my uncle and aunt Vera and Jack Nobbs who still live in Links
Close, Hellesdon. Vera is my father's sister.
-
Ken
Mason was a fellow journalist with Eastern Counties Newspapers. I now
believe that the party was held at Sea Palling and not Bacton.
-
Nanny
was Florence Steward, my grandmother and mother of my father
-
Harry
and Gladys were Harry and Gladys Sandall. Harry was my grandmother's (my
mother's mother) brother and therefore my great uncle.
-
Paul
was another close schoolboy friend Paul Smith who lived in Recreation Road
in Norwich. Today Paul drives buses and I often have a chat with him in
Norwich. Paul was responsible for introducing me to some of the more
tuneful of my current musical taste.
-
George
was George Perrin, another friend from school. I lost touch with him for
some time, but have re-established contact. He lives in Wilmslow with his
wife and three boys. I am godfather to his eldest son.
-
Ken
Milbutn (better known as Geordie) was my grandmother Dew's lodger in
Rupert Street. He also worked with my father and I enjoyed his company
greatly. Came across him a few year's later when he shared a flat with
fellow hournalists in Gorleston.
-
Ethel
- this was my grandmother Steward's sister.
-
Jean
- Jean Alexander who lived next door to us for some years in
Middleton's Lane, Hellesdon.
-
Peter
Anthony - Another schoolboy friend who subsequently went on the dame
journalism training course in Harlow, Essex, as myself. Peter subsequently
gave up journalism to study law and today is a high court judge in the
Midlands.
-
Jeannette - Jeannette
Lyon was the girlfriend of Mike Smith at this time. They subsequently got
married and I was their best man. Sadly I understand their marriage later
ended in divorce.
-
Mr and Mrs
Saunders - I have absolutely no recollection of who these good people
were.
-
Rob Evans was obviously a friend of
Peter Anthony. A few years later I got to know a Rob Evans who lived
in Hethersett and worked at the University of East Anglia. I think
this may very well be the same person.
-
Neil Anthony was the brother of Peter
Anthony
-
The horrible things probably refer to
getting up and all the stress and hassle connected with work, although
at that age I was much more able to cope with them than I am today.
-
Steve was Steve Hardy who I worked with
and shared lofgings with for a while.
-
The second hand record shop was
in London Road North, Lowestoft.
-
Compared with the other prices,
obtaining a Beatles LP for just 85p seems something of a spectacular
bargain.
-
My lodgings were at 211 St Margaret's
Road, Lowestoft.
-
Andy was Andrew Lemon, a fellow
journalist on the Lowestoft Journal and a man of considerable
charisma.
-
Shipping, Trawl, Diary was a piece of
work picked up each week from the public library in Lowestoft and
chronicled local events and ship and fishing movements. Reminds me
greatly of that excellent film and book "The Shipping News."
-
Each week we trainee journalists had to
attend shorthand classes with the aim of gaining a speed of 120 words
per minute. I surprised everyone by failing 100 words per minute twice
but getting 120 at the first attempt. I did a similar trick by failing
History O' level and passing History A' level. classes with the aim of gaining a speed of 120 words
per minute. I surprised everyone by failing 100 words per minute twice
but getting 120 at the first attempt. I did a similar trick by failing
History O' level and passing History A' level.
-
Roy was Roy Jarrold, another school
friend. Roy still lives in nearby Mulbarton and I see him quite often.
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The Sparrow's Nest is a theatre and
gardens in North Lowestoft and this pantomime would probably have been
performed by the Lowestoft Players drama group.
-
Aunty Por or Poor was actually no
relations to me, but a friend of my grandmothers. I don't know where
the name came from but her real name was Grace Spalding.
-
EDP is the Eastern Daily Press
newspaper which is still very much in existence. It's parent company
is Eastern Counties Newspapers which is now Archant.
-
Mum, Dad and Nanny - this would refer
to my mother and father, Arthur and Phyllis Steward and my mother's
mother Selina Dew who was living with them.
-
Fenn Street Gang - A television comedy
series.
-
Rob Boden and Sue. Rob was another
fellow Norwich School pupil and Sue was his girlfriend and later to be
his wife.
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Joanne was Roy Jarrold's girlfriend and
later to become his wife.
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